Living with Ghosts: Mixed reviews

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It took me a long time to get through Living with Ghosts by Kari Sperring. As a fantasy novel, it meets all the requirements in terms of the setting, the use of magic and the plot. I think that it took so long because I had a hard time getting into any of the characters, and for me that is essential to my enjoyment of a book.

Gracielis is a gigolo. He is well-mannered, good-looking and seemingly omnisexual in his willingness and ability to become attractive to anyone. Gracielis’ history is actually quite interesting. He is a failed novice of a group of assassin-sorcerer-priests who spend years training to become the ultimate blend of lover and killer. The process is only loosely depicted, but it’s something to ponder, and it’s interesting to imagine what could be created out of a blend of complete conviction, extreme skill and magic.

Gracielis is something of a catalyst for the events in the story. His flawed apprenticeship as an assassin/priest allows him to be manipulated by his former mentor, and his relationships as a lover/prostitute to people in Merafi make him interesting. Throw into this mix the fact that Gracielis is able to see and to a certain extent understand the ghosts of people who have died with events in their lives incomplete, and you have a complex mess.

Kari Sperring evokes the novels of Alexandre Dumas with the culture and decadence of the city of Merafi: an island in a river in more senses than one. As a result of a long-ago pact, Merafi is untouched by much of the magic that lives throughout the world. Practitioners of magic are banned from the city and this would include Gracielis if his true nature and skills were known.

Sperring uses a wide variety of characters to tell her story. An evil, power-hungry dark sorceress, an overly ambitious young noble, the self-sacrificing ruler of the realm, an unappreciated spouse, and a love affair ended in death fill the pages of Living with Ghosts. Of them all, the young soldier caught up in events beyond his depth is perhaps my favorite, because he feels like someone I could actually connect with and for whom I felt pity.

Living with Ghosts is a complex, deep story that, unfortunately, I never felt connected to. The plot is interesting, the characters detailed and world development adequate, but I just never fell into the story. That could be because I found Gracielis repugnant; his sexual exploits were not to my taste and I had trouble getting past that. In any case, while I can acknowledge the positives of Living with Ghosts, I never really enjoyed it.

~John Hulet

fantasy book reviews Kari Sperring Living With GhostsWhen you’ve shared a review site with someone for a long time, you start to get a feel for how your tastes are similar — and how they’re different. Being aware of these differences means that sometimes a negative review from one of your co-reviewers can make you want to read the book! For example, I know that if Kat finds a heroine too snarky, I’ll probably love her. Similarly, John and I often disagree on the “relationship stuff” in books. Recently he read Kari Sperring’s Living with Ghosts and had trouble with it, but from his review I could tell it was probably something I’d like. I was right, and Living with Ghosts was a terrific read for me.

It starts when a nobleman, Thiercelin, seeks out a male courtesan, Gracielis, to help him with a problem — he’s been seeing the ghost of his dead best friend Valdarrien. Gracielis has the ability to see ghosts. His uncanny abilities go beyond that, as it happens; he once trained for a shadowy priesthood known as the undarii. But he shied away from the final initiation and sees himself as a failure. What he knows about the supernatural, though, tells him that Valdarrien’s appearance in the city of Merafi is a bad sign. Merafi was intentionally built in a place that dampens magic, and this effect was amplified by a long-ago blood sacrifice enacted by the founder of the current ruling dynasty. If ghosts are appearing outside a few specific circumstances, it’s a sign that Merafi’s protections are unraveling.

This ties in, it turns out, with a plot against the throne. As the boundaries between the living and the dead begin to break down, a small group of reluctantly entangled characters are the only ones who can save the city. All are complex, flawed characters whose past mistakes come to bear on the current situation, and all of them change and develop throughout the novel. They are connected to each other in an intricate web of relationships: friends, relatives, ex-lovers.

This web of relationships is complex enough that it could be confusing for some readers, especially when the names are added in; Sperring’s character names are a mouthful, and most have a nickname too. For example, Valdarrien becomes Valdin and Yvelliane becomes Yviane. Perhaps the most confusing is that Illandre and Allandur are the same family name, in the Merafien and Lunedithin languages respectively. Pronounced aloud, it makes sense, but reading it in print, I was embarrassingly slow to pick up on that. There’s also a political situation to grasp, and so it’s a fair amount of knowledge for a reader to absorb. Sperring makes the wise decision to develop the plot slowly and gradually during these initial chapters. This is one case where a slow start is extremely helpful. We aren’t thrown into an epic battle, for example, without figuring out who the players are first. Sperring also builds the mood during these chapters; the incessant rain at first just seems like a fitting backdrop for the characters’ troubled moods, but then evokes its own dread as the nature of Merafi’s protections is revealed and one considers what effect the rain might have upon them.

After that, the deluge — pardon the ancien regime pun, but it seems fitting as Merafi is clearly influenced by Bourbon France. The magic in Living with Ghosts is mysterious and elemental. It reminds me of something George R.R. Martin said about magic in fantasy fiction in an interview: “I can tell you generally that when treating with magic in fantasy, you have to keep it magical. Many fantasy writers work out these detailed systems, and rules, and I think that’s a mistake. For magic to be effective in a literary sense, it has to be unknowable and strange and dangerous, with forces that can’t be predicted or controlled. That makes it, I think, much more interesting and evocative. It functions as a symbol or metaphor of all the forces in the universe we don’t understand and maybe never will.” This is that kind of magic, and once in a while it’s confusing but overall it works — and may just send shivers down your spine. The characters, as mentioned above, grow and change throughout the story. This is both a reaction to the events and a force that helps shape the events. For example, Gracielis must overcome his feelings of inadequacy if he’s to help save the city; and the way the river’s nature and Valdarrien’s emotional state weave together at the climactic moment is simply perfect and heartbreaking.

Living with Ghosts is the kind of book about which one might say, “this is the sort of thing you will like, if this is the sort of thing you like.” There’s a certain type of decadent, historically-influenced, character-driven, political, and often urban fantasy that I deeply enjoy and that is sometimes hard to find. Definitely give Sperring a try if you like Jacqueline Carey, Ellen Kushner, and Lane Robins. The writing is beautiful, the characters are well-drawn, and the story is scary and tragic and deeply romantic, without being a romance (i.e. no tidy happily-ever-after here).

(The Kindle edition of Living with Ghosts has one slightly annoying flaw: some of the line breaks that denote point-of-view shifts are missing. Most of the time it’s easy to reorient yourself, but in one scene toward the end, I briefly thought Joyain had actually morphed into Valdarrien via magic, which would have been a huge plot twist! But it was just a missing line break.)

~Kelly Lasiter

Living With Ghosts — (2009) Publisher: The dazzling debut from a brilliant new fantasy talent. This highly original, darkly atmospheric fantasy novel immerses readers in a world where ghosts and other malevolent spirits seek entry into mortal realms — invisible to all but those who are not entirely human themselves. Drawn into the ancient city of Merafi, yet barred from entering by an ancient pact sealed in blood, these hungry haunts await their opportunity to break through the magical border and wreak havoc on the city’s innocent denizens. And as a priestess and prince weave a sorcerous plot to shatter the pact and bring ruin on Merafi, only a failed assassin-priest who is now a courtesan, a noble lord married into the ruling family of Merafi, an officer of the city guard, a woman warrior who was the former lover of a now-dead lord, andthe ghost of that lord himself stand between Merafi and the tidal wave of magic that may soon bring ruin flooding down upon the city.

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JOHN HULET (on FanLit's staff July 2007 -- March 2015) is a member of the Utah Army National Guard. John’s experiences have often left a great void that has been filled by countless hours spent between the pages of a book lost in the words and images of the authors he admires. During a 12 month tour of Iraq, he spent well over $1000 on books and found sanity in the process. John lives in Utah and works slavishly to prepare soldiers to serve their country with the honor and distinction that Sturm Brightblade or Arithon s’Ffalenn would be proud of. John retired from FanLit in March 2015 after being with us for nearly 8 years.

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  1. Was it told from multiple pov? I have a hard time getting into those, especially when the evil guy is one of the POV. I don’t need to see into that kind of mind. Ever.

  2. But such a beautiful cover!

    Actually, I might give this a try. Mosiac novels don’t bother me and it does sound like an interesting world.

  3. I haven’t read the book, Marion, but based on what John says, I think you’ll like it better. I notice that he doesn’t like books without likable heroes, but I don’t think you feel the same way.

  4. I’m pretty sure I’ll like it too — this was one negative review that really made me want to read the book! :)

  5. I confess that this sounds like something I’d enjoy as well. John, have you ever had a negative review wind up convincing so many people they wanted to read the book?

  6. Just goes to show that a book can be interesting even if one particular reviewer didn’t like it!! Let me know who wants it and I will happily “share” my copy.

  7. We can pass it around, like a book fruitcake!

  8. Sounds like my kind of book!

  9. There’s a certain type of decadent, historically-influenced, character-driven, political […]

    Sold! Thank you for the review! :)

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